Welcome to AsToldByPhi
A RETURN IS UPON US!
2025 marks the return of this space—and a return to myself.
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After time away, I’m stepping back into this platform with a deeper sense of purpose and clarity. Whether you’ve been here since the beginning or you’re just finding your way to this space, I want to say thank you. Your quiet support, patience, and belief in the work I do means everything.
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AsToldByPhi has always been more than a brand. It’s a lifestyle and a reflection of becoming—of what it means to heal, to grow with intention, and to show up for your life in every season. This space is rooted in self-awareness, groundedness, and the beauty of a journey that doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s.
This year, you can expect more:
New services. Community-centered offerings. Events made to pour back into us.
And above all—a commitment to making intentional living feel real and reachable.
So take your time here. Reflect. Reconnect. Reimagine.
Welcome home.
Love Always,
Phoenix Xiahna
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Before AsToldByPhi had the words it does now, it had a why. This platform began as a personal truth—a space to slow down, reflect, and move through life with intention. Rooted in the evolving journey of a Black woman learning to choose herself daily, this is where self-reflection met storytelling. The video below is from 2020, but the heart of it still rings true: growth takes presence, not perfection. Welcome in.
TheStory of AsToldByPhi
Our E-Planner is Here !
Phoenix began using planners in high school as a way to manage anxiety and bring structure to her day. What started as a tool for tracking assignments became a consistent practice that helped her stay grounded through college, career changes, and personal transitions. Over time, she realized that most planners didn’t speak to the way she actually lived—or the balance she needed between structure and reflection.
So she created one that did.
The 28-page digital “52 Weeks of Getting It Together” Planner is rooted in real-life experience. It’s built for those who want to stay organized, reflect with intention, and grow at their own pace. With weekly space to reset, regroup, and realign, this planner is more than just a to-do list—it’s a tool for sustainable clarity.
Buy yours now and begin your year with purpose.
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